Pain in our hearts

There's pain in each and everyone of us. We have all been through pain. Maybe somebody in your family passed away. Maybe there's addiction in your family, Maybe you struggle with depression or anxiety, Maybe you have lost everything you have owned, Maybe you were molested or raped. Whatever it is, We have all been through something. We are the broken age. There is brokenness all around me. I see teenagers around me that are my age that are putting love into the wrong things. Whether it's drugs, alcohol or sex. Then I see adults around me gossiping about each other and struggling with addiction and anger and unhappiness. There's pain everywhere. Everywhere I've looked and everyone I have ever talked to. I see pain. But in my eyes pain isn't a bad thing. Pain is beautiful. Pain is God's plan for you... I know that may sound weird, Your probably thinking what the heck? Pain is hell!! But it's not. You see what I've found out is without Pain we wouldn't become strong. Without Pain we wouldn't be able to live freely. Pain usually brings something greater than itself.  You see Pain usually causes us to hit rock bottom. Am I right? Hitting rock bottom sucks because it's a last resort. But when you hit rock bottom. You normally have to make a choice. Do I want to be happy? Or do I want to keep living this awful life. I made the decision 2 years ago that I wanted to be happy. I've grown so much through my Pain. Really everybody has been through Pain and a lot of people handle Pain differently. A lot of people I've noticed build up a wall. They don't talk to anybody. Not a therapist, Not a friend, Not family members nobody. They hide there pain. Hiding your pain is a problem because it eats you up inside and doesn't let you grow. That's why you have to let your pain go. It's not easy but you can do it if I did it. The thing is your always going to remember the events that happened to you and your always going to continue with the same problems but the point is the pain will be gone and you will be able to move on. Pain shows beauty. I know a lot of people who have experienced pain who have gone on to do great and beautiful things. People who go into the mental health field, People who start churches or become pastors, People who start charities or go into the missionary field. Pain brings us Joy. Without Pain we would never become who we are. So instead of looking at pain as a bad thing. Try to look at it as a good thing. But also your pain is never going to be released until you let go of it. Let down that wall and you will find happiness in good things instead of the bad. I love you.