Boys & Bullying

Boys& Bullying

 

Bullying is one of those soft subjects for me. It's something I can't stand and it's something I'm very on the fence about. I began getting bullied in 4th grade. I began gaining weight around that time and I began getting called the word " fat". Fat to me is difficult to hear. Because nobody should be called that word ever in there life. I felt beautiful up until people began calling me names. I would hide my tears back but each day I wanted it to just end. The bullying got worse. I just felt like I never had any real friends my whole life. But the weird thing was, It was mostly guys calling me names. & It lasted probably until about 10th grade. Why are guys calling girls fat? Why are guys not respectful? No guy should ever call a girl fat. & No guy should ever make a girl feel like she's not worth it. All I've met and seen are guys who judge girls by there looks. There not thin enough, they don't have straight teeth. But the weird thing is. Even if her attitude is awful a guy will still date her because she's what guys call " beautiful". I don't know why there are guys out there that make fun of girls. I can't tell you that one because I'm not a guy and I don't understand where there coming from. But I do want to tell you any guy that judges a girl off of her looks are not worth your time. YOU are God's creation. YOU are beautiful. Any guy that doesn't see the beauty in you does not deserve what a GREAT person you are. I can promise you there are guys out there that do not care what you look like. & There are guys out there that will accept you for you. I know this because I have guys in my family who are good role models and I see the way they treat there wives and fiancé. There are guys out there. Trust me. I've had a hard time growing up dealing with my weight because it's been up and down my whole life. But Praying and believing in the lord has gotten me through. You got this girl. A guy should hold the door out for you, A guy should call you beautiful and respect your body and your boundaries, A guy should respect your parents wishes. If a guy does all of those things you found a seal deal. Don't let any guy treat you bad. Don't let any guy's words get to your head. Your great girl and you ROCK this . If your reading this I'll be praying for you. I'll pray that you will find the guy of your dreams and that the bullying will stop. Because eventually it will. Your are LOVED. Have a good night and get some sleep. For another day you will face tomorrow will be even harder today. But you got support! Love you<3.