High school can be really difficult at times. You have to keep your grades up, make your parents happy but also deal with fitting in and finding a guy to accept you for you. It is a very difficult time in a young girls life. Here is some of my advice.
1. You are beautiful the way you are- Even though you think there are girls that look 10 times better then you, who cares because you are perfect the way you are. You don't need to look a certain way to get a guy. The right guy will see you for how God made you and not how makeup makes you look. Learn to love yourself, because that shines through more than anything.
2. Don't pressure yourself that much- Of course it's good to have good grades and maybe get on a sports team but you have to do what makes you happy. Follow your heart and dreams and don't do these things to impress your parents, do them for you. Don't pressure yourself because then you will get stressed and that's not healthy. Follow your heart, go with your gut.
3. Watch your friends- Let's face it, not all friends are loyal. You are going to go through friends like flies. Friends come and go but you just have to remember the ones that will always be there. A girl is probably gonna start a rumor about you or make you feel little. Just remember she's immature and that won't get her anywhere in life. Be you, Be happy and be a good friend. If your a good friend then that's all that matters
4. Keep your innocence- There is a guy that is going to come along that is going to sweep you off your feet. However, you gotta be cautious. A guy is going to hurt you, it's what happens in high school. A lot of guys will try and take your virginity in high school or ask you to "send" pictures. But don't, Do not lose that precious part about you. Be the girl you want your future daughter to look up to. Don't be the girl that's sending guys pictures and dating everyone and sleeping with everyone. Stick to being pure, and maybe when you have been with somebody for awhile and you want to lose your virginity to him. Make sure you love him, that's what counts. Do not feel pressured to do any of these things. If a guy is saying things like " Send me a picture your beautiful and I wanna see you" Or " I'm not going to date you if you won't sleep with me". Forget him, because he is not the right guy for you and he does not respect your body or who you are.
5. Be careful of the parties- There are high school parties and yes it gets pretty crazy. Beware and be careful. If you do go, make sure you go with a group of friends you trust and that you know can take care of you. Make sure you have your phone fully charged and know that you can call your parents anytime. If you do not feel comfortable driving home with your friends because they have been drinking. Call your parents or an older sibling or anyone else you may trust. If the cops come and you get caught don't be afraid to talk to your parents. Yes, you might get in trouble but just learn your lesson for the next time. Another tip is beware of your surroundings. If you are drinking ( I hope you aren't) But if you are, do not let go of your drink all night. Make the right decisions and go with your gut feeling wherever you go.
6. Be smart in making decisions and never forget who you are. Do not change for somebody else or to get somebody to like you. Be who you are and that's all that matters. High school is tough but fun at the same time. Cherish these moments, because they will be gone before you know it. You are all beautiful in your own way. Be the lady you want your future daughter to be. & Never forget that God loves you more than you love anybody else!
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