The Right Guy

So many young woman today go for just ANY guy. They don't care if he's a bad boy or a cheater.  For me I look for certain qualities in someone. It's not so much about his appearance to me but his attitude and how he carries himself. So many guys today do not respect woman bottom line. They either want them for sex, or brag about them to there friends and dump them after a night of hooking up. It's sad..we have lost our gentlemen. However, I do believe there are good guys out there and that they do exist. My church is full of great, respectful young men. It's just sad woman today are going for the wrong guys. I'll be honest I almost fell for the trap of "wrong guys" multiple times. You just get lonely and feel like none of the good guys want you so you just go for the next available target. Sometimes that next available target isn't so good and in the end you get used. So instead of keeping my guard up on the kind of guy I want I am going to change it. Instead of thinking of the type of appearance I want him to be or the interests I want him to have I'm going to let that go. The kind of guy I want just has to have a relationship with God. He has to just be respectful to me and my family. That is all I care about. Two things are what I want in a guy. It's simple and I pray he comes but so far I haven't met him. I've met men that do not care about woman's feelings and so many of my friends are falling into the trap of just choosing the next best thing because there lonely, and want to feel loved by somebody. I pray for all the guys out there that are using woman for the wrong reasons. Who are inappropriate, disrespectful. I also pray for all of the woman who have to deal with men like that or who fall in love with a guy who doesn't show he cares. We have all been there in places like that. I believe there is a light at the end when it comes to relationships. I truly believe everybody finds the love of there life. If they divorce then they weren't soulmates. True love is real, God created it. I will find my guy and so will all of you ladies. Just respect yourself, stay true to who you are and be yourself. Never change for anyone unless there positive changes to your life. I will never stop praying for my generation. God knows how much I want it to change. 

God bless.!