Sunday, August 17, 2014

How a Guy Should Treat A Girl....

When I meet a guy I usually notice three things. 1. Does he Shake my Hand when he introduces himself  2. Does he hold doors open for girls. 3. Does he have maturity and respect ( Meaning he doesn't make fun of others and he acts like an adult in public). All of those things attract me . Those are the three things I want to see when I have a first introduction with a guy. So far, I haven't met one that has met those three strong qualities I look for. But I know I will. A Guy should treat a girl like a princess. I'm not saying go all out and buy her tons of jewelry or flowers . What I mean by that is, A Guy should be there for the women he loves. If she is going through a hard time he should tell her everything's going to be okay. He should pray with her or bring home her favorite food. He could even do something simple as like doing the dishes after dinner. A Guy should also RESPECT his girlfriend/wife. What I mean by that is there should be no name calling. If she get's on your nerves or your arguing about something . The best thing you can do would be walk away from the situation and go for a drive and then come back in an hour and hug her and tell her you love her. You should hold the door open for her, You should call her beautiful. You should also respect her family. Respect what her family wants out of you and out of life. A Big one is  Always respect Dad & Mom.  If you respect her parents that means you respect her. & Never check out other girls in public. If you really love the women your with. You will never have to look at another women again. You'll only have eyes for the one your with. Show her off. Bring her to every family event and friend gathering. Bring her to your favorite places. Be funny ( Sometimes we need a good laugh). Another big one is respect her tv time. There's just sometimes where we want to watch our shows just like you want to watch your sports. So give us that time. Sometimes we get cranky ( Yes I know, it's bad). Sometimes were an emotional wreck where we cry over everything. In those times the best thing you could do would bring home some ice cream or some chocolate and sit down and cuddle with her, put on her favorite movie and tell her to relax. Another thing is always practice good hygiene. That's a big thing for women . We always want a guy to look nice and clean cut. I know this is asking for a lot but I'm pretty sure you ask a lot out of us as well. The best thing would be to do these things for her. & If you do these things the women you love will respect you and give back what she has received from you. I've seen great marriages in my family and the ones that have lasted so long were because of the man. If a Man is who he is and does what he's supposed to do as a husband/boyfriend. Nothing will fail because you will always keep her happy. & I guarantee she will always try and keep you happy if you make her happy. Being in a relationship is a big commitment . I'm not there yet, because I haven't found "him" yet or even somebody I want to be my boyfriend.  But what I can tell you is there's somebody out there for all of us. Love does exist ( I've seen it). & The most important thing is you should be in love with your best friend. But if you want to receive this kind of love from a guy. The number 1 thing you could do would be to respect your body & yourself. If you don't respect yourself your going to attract the wrong guys. There are good guys out there, but usually they look for something specific in somebody. So be that somebody. Be a "nice girl". & Don't give up because there's love out there for all of us. Were all still young experiencing parties, and college, & work. So the best thing we could all do would be the best person we could be. & If we do that than the right person will come along at the right time:)

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