A few years ago when I was in 7th grade I went on a junior high trip with my church. We went to the mountains and although I had a miserable time cause I didn't know anyone, everyone was in there cliques and it just wasn't my thing. I also at that moment and time accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. I never thought about holding onto my virginity until that moment. From that day I decided to make a commitment to the Lord to try and wait until marriage or at least until i fall in love with somebody. Since I've grown up into an adult I noticed how frowned upon it is to be a Virgin. Guys look at you like your crazy, they don't want to talk to you if your a virgin. It get's absolutely made fun of in every way possible and in my eyes I don't understand why. Sex to me is a beautiful thing, it was created by God for two people to come together as one. But in today's culture it's just used as pleasure and nowadays people just hookup to feel that pleasure. That's so disturbing to me because it's not even about Sex being beautiful or special.. instead it's about just doing it because once you have it, it becomes a drug and you get addicted to the feeling. I am tired of people looking down on me for making this decision to wait. I have no regrets and I will continue to give my all everyday to keep my Virginity until a guy comes along who gets the amazing chance to take it. I also find it really attractive when a guy is a Virgin himself because it means he has self control, he's mature enough to say no and he's strong enough to stay true to himself. I get upset because it get's looked down on but it's just the culture were in and I know that I can't change our culture. So even though it get's frowned upon I will still continue to be true to myself and say no whenever I get asked. I will continue to strive to be an example for my niece and little ones. You know what I'm proud of though? Is that I have been able to say no. I have chosen to be DIFFERENT. I have chosen to stick out and stick up for something that means something to me despite what people think. I will never change. I will always continue to think of Sex as something 2 people who love each other should have. I will always think of sex as a magical, beautiful thing that should be with someone special in your life. I will always Value what God has given us . I will value myself and know that I deserve a guy who will be respectful and wait until I'm ready. And most importantly, I will continue being myself.
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